WIFM Webinar Archive-WIFM Webinar | Leading Crucial Conversations

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In the Women in Fleet Management webinar, Dr. Shereen McHenry addresses the importance of leading crucial conversations effectively to foster high-performance teams and productive workplace cultures. She emphasizes that unresolved conflicts are like "stinky garbage" that, if left unattended, harm organizational health. Dr. McHenry introduces a straightforward communication tool, the "bug and wish" method, evolving it into adult "I statements" such as "It frustrates me when... I need…," which help leaders express concerns clearly and constructively without escalating emotions.<br /><br />She discusses common employee reactions—acceptance, excuses, or defensiveness—and advises leaders to use "soft pillowing" (acknowledging excuses while reiterating expectations) along with the "broken record" technique (calmly repeating key points) to maintain boundaries and uphold standards. Dr. McHenry stresses that leaders must follow up on conversations until behaviors change, documenting communications clearly and setting firm deadlines.<br /><br />The webinar also covers how to handle difficult situations, including addressing behavior from superiors, and highlights the necessity of courage and intentionality in conflict resolution. Ultimately, Dr. McHenry reframes crucial conversations as gifts that enable growth and accountability, empowering leaders to protect relationships, productivity, and organizational integrity.

Keywords

Women in Fleet Management

Dr. Shereen McHenry

crucial conversations

high-performance teams

bug and wish method

I statements

soft pillowing

broken record technique

conflict resolution