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The speaker argues that poker is fundamentally a people game, and its skills—reading others, adapting to their motivations, taking calculated risks, and recovering from losses—can make anyone a stronger negotiator. Drawing on her career in product marketing and entrepreneurship, she explains how poker helped her recognize workplace dynamics and confidently ask for what her work was worth.<br /><br />She describes four personality styles—aggressive or passive, and loose or selective—and says negotiation tactics should adapt to the person across the table. For example, stay focused with aggressive negotiators, use facts with decisive ones, and frame outcomes as shared wins for people who value teamwork. She also emphasizes that maintaining the status quo can be a sound strategic choice, but should not be driven by fear.<br /><br />Her key principles are to take initiative and ask for what you want; define a clear goal before negotiating; avoid becoming attached to a deal that no longer makes sense; learn whether a setback resulted from poor strategy or bad luck; and act decisively when you have strong leverage. She also highlights the importance of presence and nonverbal communication.<br /><br />Ultimately, negotiating for yourself means knowing your value, being clear about what you want, and asking confidently—playing to win rather than merely trying not to lose.

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Location Las Vegas

Year 2026

Keywords

poker

negotiation

people skills

workplace dynamics

risk-taking

personality styles

self-advocacy

leverage

nonverbal communication

Las Vegas

2026